Seinfeldy Ways

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Monica Writes: I met this guy and he’s really attractive, successful, educated, drama free with great credit. The problem I have is, he has a flatulence problem. He passes gas all the time and doesn’t say “Excuse Me”. I want to bring it up but fear he might think I am being anal. However, I was raised to always say “Excuse Me” when you pass gas. Not to mention, go in another room if you need to break wind. He will pass gas (very loud) and not even blink. I find this to be so ODD. I want to suggest that he go and get checked out by a gastroenterologist.  Seriously, this is such a deal breaker and a turn off. My friends say I am tripping because there is no such thing as a “Perfect” man. I am not asking for a perfect man, just one that isn’t so gassy.

Am I overreacting? Should I continue to see him or stop dating Mr, Gassy?

Please help Me Khemeka B!!!

What do you all think she should do?

“Would I Date Me Series”


2 thoughts on “Seinfeldy Ways

    nitrasit said:
    October 26, 2014 at 8:54 pm

    I am curious how long the couple have been dating. You have to be extremely comfortable with someone to pass gas in front of them for a number of reasons. It seems if the relationship is fairly new and this is going on he has a boundary issues. Who does that? It’s offensive at times and not to at the very least say excuse me??? Who does that?

    Early in relationships are considered the honeymoon stage and both parties are on their best behavior. So, I am very confused unless he is testing you and even then oh, why did he decide on this format. Smh, please believe me when I say I am not making lite of your situation however I don’t understand why you would subject yourself to such rude behavior. You deserve someone who would at the very least carry around a spray can of air freshener with him.

      khemekab responded:
      October 27, 2014 at 10:43 pm

      I wanted to get back to you with a proper response to your questions.
      They had been dating for a month, not long whatsoever. He was just too comfortable and she felt uneasy on bringing this up. As a matter of fact, she stopped seeing him and explained to him after on her decision. He said she was stuck up and uptight. The nerve of him, instead of acknowledging his actions, he pointed the finger. I agree, he should have brought around an air freshener. LOL!

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